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Views from the Choir Loft

Let’s Bring Back the Thank-You Note

Keven Smith · November 16, 2020

’M A LITTLE EARLY for Thanksgiving, but I think any church musician will appreciate this story of gratitude. A couple of weeks ago, I came out of church one evening after playing four or five of our parish’s eight Sunday Masses. When I had arrived in the morning, there was brilliant sunshine, and the parking lot was so full that I had to park along the adjacent block. By now, it was twilight, and the street was quiet. I soaked in the calm.

But as I approached my car, I noticed a paper tucked under the wiper blade. “A ticket?” I thought. “Since when is it illegal to park along a neighborhood street?”

When I got closer, I realized it was a collection envelope from our parish. There was no money in it—there was something even better: a note.

“Kevin THANKS, Great playing! God bless you & family”

I stood there, stunned. Someone had recognized my car, realized how much they appreciated having organ music at Mass (we’re still not allowed to sing), and rooted around for the only piece of paper they could find, which happened to be a collection envelope from six months ago. They then took the time to write me a note.

It’s such a simple thing, but it lifted my spirits for days.

The Unmistakable Power of Committing Words to Paper

I think you’ll agree that we church musicians don’t do what we do for the compliments. There are even times when it can feel embarrassing to be praised extravagantly for merely doing what God gave us the talent to do—especially if we’re fortunate enough to be paid for our efforts (as I am).

But this simple, spontaneous note meant so much to me. I took it home and put it on my desk so that I could see it all day as I work on my computer. It’s still there as I write this article.

Why was this note more meaningful than if the anonymous person had said the same thing to my face? It’s not that spoken words are cheap. But like music, they float away and can never be recreated precisely. By contrast, a written note has staying power. We commit to paper (and not just the screen) words that we hope someone will revisit often. A handwritten letter is an enduring, deeply personal gift.

When my longtime Head Chorister went off to college in August, she wrote me a beautiful, heartfelt note that’s still on my desk. I’ve read it at least 20 times. She’s still with me because I have her words right in front of me. And I made sure to send my written gratitude off with her.

This windshield note now reminds me each day that all my struggles as a beginning organist are worth it—not only because the music at Mass glorifies God but also because my fellow parishioners appreciate it.

How Handwritten Notes Can Help You Build a Choir

The legendary church choir director John Bertalot knew the power of the written note. In his delightful book Immediately Practical Tips for Choral Directors, he explains how he sent handwritten letters to recruit new singers and to thank them for auditioning. He knew that writing a note would demonstrate his seriousness of purpose and distinguish him from the many other people vying for singers’ attention. If writing notes set John Bertalot apart 30 years ago, how much can it set us apart today in the electronic age?

Folks, let’s bring back the thank-you note. There’s nothing quite like a handwritten expression of gratitude to build a relationship. Happy Thanksgiving to all.

Opinions by blog authors do not necessarily represent the views of Corpus Christi Watershed.

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About Keven Smith

Keven Smith, music director at St. Stephen the First Martyr, lives in Sacramento with his wife and five musical children.—(Read full biography).

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President’s Corner

    Simplest “Agnus Dei” Ever Published
    Our choir is on break during the month of July. I needed a relatively simple “Agnus Dei,” so I composed this setting for organ & voice in honor of Saint René Goupil. It has been called the simplest setting ever composed. I love CARMEN GREGORIANUM (“Gregorian Chant”), especially the ALLELUIAS, INTROITS, and COMMUNION ANTIPHONS. That being said, some have pointed out that certain sections of the Kyriale aren’t as strong as the Graduale or Vesperale. There’s a reason for this—but it would be too complicated to explain at this moment.
    —Jeff Ostrowski
    14th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C)
    Our choir is on break during the month of July. However, on the feasts website, the chants have been posted for the 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C), which is this coming Sunday: 6 July 2025.
    —Jeff Ostrowski
    Bugnini’s Statement (6 November 1966)
    With each passing day, more is revealed about how the enemies of the liturgy accomplished their goals. For instance, Hannibal Bugnini deeply resented the way Vatican II said Gregorian Chant “must be given first place in liturgical services.” On 6 November 1966, his cadre wrote a letter attempting to justify the elimination of Gregorian Chant with this brazen statement: “What really gives a Mass its tone is not so much the songs as it is the prayers and readings.” Bugnini’s cadre then attacked the very heart of Gregorian Chant (viz. the Proprium Missae), bemoaning how the Proprium Missae “is completely new each Sunday and feast day.” There is much more to be said about this topic. Stay tuned.
    —Jeff Ostrowski

Quick Thoughts

    Pope Pius XII Hymnal?
    Have you ever heard of the Pope Pius XII Hymnal? It’s a real book, published in the United States in 1959. Here’s a sample page so you can verify with your own eyes it existed.
    —Corpus Christi Watershed
    “Hybrid” Chant Notation?
    Over the years, many have tried to ‘simplify’ plainsong notation. The O’Fallon Propers attempted to simplify the notation—but ended up making matters worse. Dr. Karl Weinmann tried to do the same in the time of Pope Saint Pius X by replacing each porrectus. You can examine a specimen from his edition and see whether you agree he complicated matters. In particular, look at what he did with éxsules fílii Hévae.
    —Corpus Christi Watershed
    Antiphons Don’t Match?
    A reader wants to know why the Entrance and Communion antiphons in certain publications deviate from what’s prescribed by the GRADUALE ROMANUM published after Vatican II. Click here to read our answer. The short answer is: the Adalbert Propers were never intended to be sung. They were intended for private Masses only (or Masses without music). The “Graduale Parvum,” published by the John Henry Newman Institute of Liturgical Music in 2023, mostly uses the Adalbert Propers—but sometimes uses the GRADUALE text: e.g. Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul (29 June).
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Random Quote

“We must say it plainly: the Roman rite as we knew it exists no more. It has gone. Some walls of the structure have fallen, others have been altered—we can look at it as a ruin or as the partial foundation of a new building. Think back, if you remember it, to the Latin sung High Mass with Gregorian chant. Compare it with the modern post-Vatican II Mass. It is not only the words, but also the tunes and even certain actions that are different. In fact it is a different liturgy of the Mass.”

— Fr. Joseph Gelineau (1978)

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