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Confessing Our Sins

Fr. David Friel · January 27, 2013

S IT HARD to go to confession? Sometimes even very faithful Catholics find the Sacrament of Penance daunting. There are many factors: sometimes we feel unprepared; maybe we know the priest very well; we easily forget the form or the Act of Contrition.

Then, of course, there are times when we know we need Reconciliation, but we avoid going because we’re not sure how to say some of the things we know we need to say. Some things are just difficult to say. Others are embarrassing, complicated, or even (in a strange way) humorous. But they need to be said. How?

One thing that should be a solace to us is that what the Church asks the penitent to say in Confession is minimal. Penitents are required to state only the nature and frequency of their sins. As a confessor, I sometimes experience penitents who say too little, but more frequent is the penitent who wants to say too much. What needs to be said is simply enough to convey the essence of what the sin entailed (not necessarily every specific, gory aspect) and how many times the sin was committed. This is not permission to skip confessing some sins; we must confess our sins, but not in graphic detail.

When we find ourselves nervous or afraid to confess, it may be helpful to see things from the other side of the confessional. I cannot think of a single confession I have heard that has caused me to think less of the penitent, whether I knew them or not. As a priest hearing confessions, I am consistently impressed by the humility of people who come to receive the mercy of our Lord. I’ve often heard folks remark that “You can’t say anything Father hasn’t already heard,” which is probably true. But, more importantly, you can’t say anything that God doesn’t urgently want to forgive through the ministry of his priests.

The Sacrament of Penance is not just for Lent or Advent. Chances are high that each of us sin every single day. We ought not to let any obstacle delay our reception of God’s grace, which He so desires to share with us through Reconciliation. After all, He came to call sinners, not the just.

When we approach Him in humility, He always gives us pardon & peace.

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About Fr. David Friel

Ordained in 2011, Father Friel is a priest of the Archdiocese of Philadelphia and serves as Director of Liturgy at Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary. —(Read full biography).

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    My pastor asked me to write little columns for the bulletin each week. The article for 20 July 2025 has been posted, and it’s called: “What Luther Said…” Martin Luther (an ex-priest and apostate) was an infamous heretic whose ignorance of JESUS CHRIST was only exceeded by his filthy and disgusting vulgarity.
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    Some have expressed interest in perusing the ORDER OF MUSIC I prepared for the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time (13 July 2025). If such a thing interests you, feel free to download it as a PDF file. As always, the Responsorial Psalm, Gospel Acclamation, and propers for this Sunday are also provided at the the feasts website.
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    15th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C)
    This coming Sunday—13 July 2025—is the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C). All the chants have been conveniently assembled and posted at the feasts website. The OFFERTORY, Ad Te Levávi, is particularly beautiful.
    —Jeff Ostrowski

Quick Thoughts

    Pope Pius XII Hymnal?
    Have you ever heard of the Pope Pius XII Hymnal? It’s a real book, published in the United States in 1959. Here’s a sample page so you can verify with your own eyes it existed.
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    “Hybrid” Chant Notation?
    Over the years, many have tried to ‘simplify’ plainsong notation. The O’Fallon Propers attempted to simplify the notation—but ended up making matters worse. Dr. Karl Weinmann tried to do the same in the time of Pope Saint Pius X by replacing each porrectus. You can examine a specimen from his edition and see whether you agree he complicated matters. In particular, look at what he did with éxsules fílii Hévae.
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    Antiphons Don’t Match?
    A reader wants to know why the Entrance and Communion antiphons in certain publications deviate from what’s prescribed by the GRADUALE ROMANUM published after Vatican II. Click here to read our answer. The short answer is: the Adalbert Propers were never intended to be sung. They were intended for private Masses only (or Masses without music). The “Graduale Parvum,” published by the John Henry Newman Institute of Liturgical Music in 2023, mostly uses the Adalbert Propers—but sometimes uses the GRADUALE text: e.g. Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul (29 June).
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“Our Christian people regard with great joy everything that contributes to the splendor of the ceremonies. Jesus—who was poor in His private life—received ointment on His feet. See Thomas Aquinas (Prima Secundae, q. 102, art. 5, ad 10) and the holy Curé of Ars. The Church has always loved beautiful churches, and so forth. We must preserve our sacred patrimony and make sure sacred objects do not become secular possessions.”

— Abbot & Council Father denouncing “noble simplicity” during Vatican II

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