Goodness in Small Quantities is Still Goodness

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Do any of us suffer from “constriction of the heart?”

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Is it really easier to work in a grumpy complaining manner?

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Sparkletts makes it easier?

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Because some people fake poverty are you off the hook?

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How tight are your purse strings?

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How trivial can something be yet still get on your nerves?

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Why shouldn’t the Church be perfect?

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Family? Easiest or Hardest to Cope with during Stress?

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“Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow creeps in its petty pace.” – Shakespeare

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If I’m the center of reality, how come everything doesn’t go more smoothly?

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Is impatient speech usually loving?

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Do you prefer to be a fretful dwarf or a serene sage?

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What, not a single grimace or frown for 24/7?

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Does everyone you love know how much you appreciate their virtues?

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“A spoonful of honey is better than a barrel full of vinegar.” – St. Francis de Sales

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So maybe “touchy feely” isn’t always silly?

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Do people associate you with smiles or frowns?

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How can Rudeness be Loving?

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Do others rate you as friendly, unfriendly or just blah?

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Are tiny sacrifices so awful we shouldn’t make them?

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If we don’t enjoy self-pity why do we indulge in it?

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Is “manana” our way of keeping promises?

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You mean “I did it my way” isn’t always loving?

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Do we pray as if God is not there?

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Do Big Deeds of Love make up for not doing Little Ones?

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Is being holy our hobby or our vocation?

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It would kill me to be more silent for one day?

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If we can’t even control ourselves why do we think we can control others?

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“You idiot, why did you get involved in that problem in the first place?”

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How many extra Bosses do People Want?

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What is harder, biting your tongue or hurting the feelings of others ?

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“Never, never give advice unless asked???”

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Why do you Love Certain Religious Art more than other Famous Religious Art?

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“The eyes are the windows of the soul.”

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Did you hug your beast today?

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Do others praise God because you are so pleasant to look at and/or your house is so lovely?

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Do you let evil spirits get you down?

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Ridicule or Delight – Our Choice?

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How much more Joyful can you be for Free?

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Do you judge yourself even more harshly than you judge others?

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What would your score-card be on forgiving those less close to you?

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How enraged do you let yourself get when you can’t force authorities to agree with you?

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How many friendships have gone sour on you?

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Do you wish you were born into a different family?

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Day 15: Forgiveness
2011 December 04

If crucifixion can be forgiven, what can’t you forgive?

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Take your foot out of your mouth!

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Are you more loving in your talk with strangers or with family and friends?

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If someone taped your conversations would they be mostly negative or positive?

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“Words will never hurt you?”

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Can you go through a whole day thanking God?

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Day 6: Gratitude for Crosses
2011 November 25

Dare you to look for Blessings in Crosses

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“God don’t make junk!”

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Day 4: Gratefulness for Tech
2011 November 23

Even if tech is frustrating, it is also terrific

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If human love isn’t perfect shouldn’t you still be grateful for it?

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When did you last thank God for toilet paper?

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A Hundred Day Spiritual Marathon – it could hurt????

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Don't Miss This!
2011 November 09

Catch Dr. Ronda on EWTN

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Our Lady of Lavang
2011 November 08

An apparition of Our Lady you never heard about?

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great new Catholic novel

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A tech-less world

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The Four Elements
2011 October 29

Old Categories Still Interesting?

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No one is Perfect
2011 October 29

Teddy Bear Problems

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Do you really know what Heaven will be Like?

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Perfectionism that Doesn’t Work

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Roots of Rage
2011 October 18

Convoluted Conflicts

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mea culpa!

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Negativity on E-Mails
2011 October 08

“The iron hand in the velvet glove.”

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True Christian Leadership
2011 October 08

Descending the Ladder?

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Feast of St. Francis
2011 October 05

“My yoke is easy,” who are you kidding?

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Leave Taking
2011 October 04

Bitterness When Others Depart?

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Are you more concerned with your own image than with good realities around you?

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Excuse vs. Accuse
2011 September 28

Is it okay to hate strangers?

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Amazing Story of a Family in Canada

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Making Mistakes
2011 September 20

Is it really a 911 every time we make a mistake?

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Liturgical Mysticism
2011 September 14

Are ecstasies appropriate at the Liturgy?

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the complaining habit

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The Devil: Father of Lies
2011 September 07

Has believing lies hurt your soul?

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Wordless Prayer
2011 September 05

Tired of words?

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The Church as the Mystical United Nations!

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After the Storm
2011 August 31

So, we’re not in control after all??

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Overcoming Polarity
2011 August 23
What is your take on divisions within the Church?
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Our celestial living room

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Short Spiritual Images
2011 August 18

Is the road straight or spiral?

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Priorities
2011 August 14

Do we always know what someone’s priorities really are?

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Miscellaneous
2011 August 14

What did Neil Armstrong have in common with Our Lady of the Assumption?

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Gratitude
2011 August 11

Gratitude: Even More Important then We Think?

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Do you believe that you are “called by name”?

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The Spiritual Classics
2011 August 07

Do you only like contemporary spirituality?

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a blog for babies???

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Euphemisms invading our Church

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Security or Jesus?
2011 July 28

Is the longing for security worldly?

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Does anything different scare us?

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Listening vs. Arguing
2011 July 25

If you listen to others, they may listen to you!

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A Home for the Homeless?

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Standard Answers vs. Graced Moments

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Who am I?

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Could you be timid and proud at the same time?

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New Age: Bridge to or Substitute for Christianity?

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Wearing a Crucifix
2011 July 16

Clothes Make the Man/Woman?

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Is the Triduum the only time you pray for those of other faiths?

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Let’s quit saying “I am what I am and I’m not changing!”

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Are all Ecologists one-sided pro-aborts?

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Sibling Strain and Refrain

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Lingering stereotypes

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As St. John Vianney said, the good Lord is indeed good to His people and gives us so many blessings.

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TV and Webs as Cold Mediums

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Driving a Grandson’s Mustang in LA Traffic

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No friends like old friends

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statements or questions?

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Bearing Your Cross as your Credibility

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Perfect Love casts out Fear?

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Freedom of Spirit
2011 June 28

Country Western High

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Dependency and Virtue
2011 June 27

Dependency good and bad

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“spruce up Christmas next time.”

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A family of word-mongers

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Senora Magdalena
2011 June 17

A living saint you’ve probably never heard of!

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Unexpected Rewards for Talking Less

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Identity Crisis?

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is it selfish to want to be loved?

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Holier than Fr. Benedict Groeschel?

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“They said it couldn’t be done!”

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Arrogance - Remedies
2011 June 02

how high is your snout?

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A Scripture Study “Lite” but “Deep

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to vent or not to vent?

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fine tuning luxury vs. miserliness

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Off the hook, if evil isn’t that real?

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From riches to rags

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Two’s company, three’s a crowd – but two leaders are already a crowd

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How merciful are your eyes?

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Many thoughts
2011 May 21

Can I do Miscellaneous on a Blog?

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Redeemed Schmoozing
2011 May 19

Blessed be the Peacemakers

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“Rent a Square”

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Traditions and Surprises

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Is it wrong to shrink shrinks?

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“No one can know at what cost another person has earned their face.”

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Lebensraum
2011 May 16

how much space do you occupy?

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Home and Homelessness
2011 May 15

happy, happier, happiest

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Healing of Rejection
2011 May 15

tenderness instead of thirst

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Healing the Emotions
2011 April 30

Notes for a Talk I will be giving in SC in June at a Healing Conference

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Why be a Wounded Healer
2011 April 29

Don’t be a wounded wounder!

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Hispanic Masses
2011 April 28

Mother-tongue Joy

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Memories
2011 April 26

Do Live in the Past?

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don’t give up even after 16 tries

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A Spiritual Warfare Weapon

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The Passion Revisited
2011 April 21

Watching The Passion at the Seminary

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Sacred Time and Space
2011 April 20

Why such long ceremonies during Holy Week?

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My Life is out of Control!

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not enough or too much?

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What’s a kvell?

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the upward glance

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New Dark Age or New Springtime?

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“How could a God of Love let this happen?”

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"God Alone" Reflections
2011 April 12

More than I could have thought myself…

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Abby Johnson's Unplanned
2011 April 11

How could any Christian be pro-abortion?

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Kevin Allen's Motets
2011 April 11

Escape from the Frenzied Brain

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one of the best Catholic movies ever

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He’s not what I thought he was!

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Seminarians
2011 April 07

If they don’t persevere, we starve!

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Take the Joy!

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Do you often feel alone when you are suffering?

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Poetry of John Paul II
2011 April 04

When “no one will accuse me of simplicity?”

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An Extraordinary Concert
2011 April 03

The Perfect is better than the Good

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Prophetic Boomerang

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their way or my way

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“All sins are forms of impatience!” Kierkegaard

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The Four Temperaments
2011 March 29

Which are your temperaments?

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How long does it take to be sure a friendship is good?

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everything has it’s advantages and disadvantages

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Don't Box Mary In
2011 March 25

She can do more than you ever thought!

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Why Love is not Loved
2011 March 24

“Love is Not Loved”

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God’s personnel shortage?

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Showing Emotions
2011 March 22

Why not “wear your heart on your sleeve?”

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Do you give God time to re-create you?

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Foul-Proof Charity
2011 March 20

“No milk in her breasts…”

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Your Secret Name on the White Stone?

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Shifting Paradigms
2011 March 16

Jet Set or Circle City?

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Custom-Made Temptations
2011 March 15

Oh for the life of a beach comber?

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Corollary to “they shall be 2 in 1 flesh.”

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"Addiction" and Pain
2011 March 14

“Don’t give up hope!”

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“play it for comedy”

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Sad Triplets?

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Counsel: coercive or gentle?

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Better to light a candle….

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Taming the Lion Within
2011 March 08

Symbolic Victory!

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Naïveté as a Defense Mechanism?

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Balance
2011 March 06

The grass isn’t always greener!

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conformity – a high price for security?

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Clones or overlapping circles?

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Beauty – balm for the troubled soul

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“Everyone close to you will agree…”

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Daring to be Vulnerable
2011 March 01

“fight, flight, or….?”

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Ridicule - a sin?
2011 February 28

Fallen idol? . . . or funny little creature?

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Fresh Beauty
2011 February 27

Which of these four describes you best?

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How can we expect to be peaceful when…?

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When do I hate to be a Christian?

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Silence!
2011 February 24

“don’t try talking less…”

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Anger Management that Works
2011 February 23

“I’m angry because everyone else is obnoxious, so I don’t have a problem!”

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I bet you don’t know who said the famous line “the perfect is the enemy of the good.”

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When a Child Commits Suicide.

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Topic: The price of heaven.

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“never, never, never think…”

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At Holy Apostles College and Seminary where I teach, the Saint John Cantius Society seminarians develop a choir.

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Contemplative Photography
2011 February 17

When you contemplate the people you know well do you think of their best features or do you exaggerate their worst features?

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