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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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A lot of the favoured new settings are musically illiterate, almost is if they were written by semi-trained teenagers, getting to grips with musical rudiments. The style is stodgy and sentimental, tonally and rhythmically stilted, melodically inane and adored by Catholic clergy “of a certain age.” Some Catholic dioceses run courses for wannabe composers to perpetuate this style. It is a scandal. People with hardly any training and experience of even the basic building blocks of music have been convinced that there is a place for their puerile stumblings and fumblings in the modern Catholic Church because real musicians are elitist and off-putting.
— James MacMillan (20 November 2013)

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Day 79: The Challenge of Resignation vs. Rage
published 21 March 2012 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.    [ Click here for 100 STEPS ]

“Be angry but sin not; commune with your own hearts on your beds and be silent. Offer right sacrifices, and put your trust in the Lord.” (Psalm 4:4-5)

Dr. Ronda’s examples: This challenge reminded me of the serenity prayer – to have the wisdom to know what I can change and what I can’t change. I thought of the character of a man who is kind of Stoic and not very communicative. I remembered someone writing that what women really want is to change men into women in terms of willingness to talk a lot about daily conflicts. I thought of how resignation is a relaxed state vs. the tension of anger. I reminded myself that instead of complaining I should be happy that anything goes well. Going slower vs. multi-tasking I find to be a help in overcoming irritability. I had to wait for a promised ride. I got angry, but I kept talking to myself about how trivial this was. Especially since the ride was to a talk on overcoming anger! The talk went very well and I was ashamed at my fantasies of giving up talks just to avoid the usual difficulties with speaking dates in terms of the arrangements. I can offer these little crosses up for the people attending the talk instead of fretfully complaining.

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My prayer: Father God, even without original sin men and women would have been different in character in many ways. Let me accept these differences and work with them instead of going into a tizzy when the difference means I can’t have things my way. Remind me to thank you for all the wonderful masculine qualities in men who help me in so many ways.

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