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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“We must say it plainly: the Roman rite as we knew it exists no more. It has gone. Some walls of the structure have fallen, others have been altered—we can look at it as a ruin or as the partial foundation of a new building. Think back, if you remember it, to the Latin sung High Mass with Gregorian chant. Compare it with the modern post-Vatican II Mass. It is not only the words, but also the tunes and even certain actions that are different. In fact it is a different liturgy of the Mass.”
— Fr. Joseph Gelineau (1978)

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Day 46: The Challenge of a Loving Touch
published 29 January 2012 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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Dr. Ronda’s examples: I recalled that bumper sticker “how many hugs did you give your kid today?” Since I am with family right now, that part is easy, but I noticed doing it that I feel good hugging them even if they don’t return the gesture. I was with an old friend I hadn’t seen in years. It felt good that we patted each other during very emotional sharings. The same with members of her family I hadn’t seen in a long time. Some of the widows in the Church here are still having a once a month lunch with prayer and conversation. I was part of the start of it years ago. Because of this challenge I was even more outgoing than usual even though I generally prefer structured activities to the small talk the others in this love to engage in.

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Prayer: Mother Mary, I believe that you were the warmest motherly woman that ever lived. My speculation is that people loved to touch you. Help us to be so truly chaste that no one will misjudge us if we reach out, especially to those who are lonely.

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