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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“You have thereby removed from the celebration of the Mass all superstitions, all greed for lucre, and all irreverence … removed its celebrations from private homes and profane places to holy and consecrated sanctuaries. You have banished from the temple of the Lord the more effeminate singing and musical compositions.”
— Bishop Racozonus, speaking at the last session of the Council of Trent (1563)

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Day 45: The Challenge of Smiling Lovingly
published 26 January 2012 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“A glad heart makes a cheerful face.” Proverbs 15:13

Dr. Ronda’s examples: I am known for my smile, but I realized working on this challenge that it is sporadic, especially if I am in a low mood. So I had to pay attention today to smiling at people I met in Church mainly. I could see that strangers seemed pleased and surprised that I smiled at them. I also practiced smiling at myself in my thoughts and at Jesus, Mary and Joseph. I saw that, in some cases, smiling was related to not bearing grudges or blaming others in a situation where I wished that some others would do something they don’t usually do in a work situation. I gave a talk at a place I used to do ministry in and I could see that people who came appreciated my previous friendliness to them. I purposely smiled a lot at some who I didn’t know too well.

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Prayer: Oh my Jesus, Mary and Joseph, I have a picture I drew of you three smiling at me. I think of Christians I have known with many heavy crosses, who yet smiled often in a touching way to show their love for me and others. May I never consider that depressed feelings are more real than love.

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