What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011. [ Click here for 100 STEPS ]
“One gives freely, yet grows all the richer;
another withholds what he should give, and only suffers want.” (Proverbs 11:24)
Dr. Ronda’s examples: I remember going to a lecture of the great psychologist Viktor Frankl, who had been in a concentration camp in Germany. Perhaps because of the sufferings of that time, he said that he told all his patients that they could call him any time of the night. I was so impressed that I always say the same to anyone who is in crisis. I practiced hospitality of the heart today by calling old friends even when I was tired. The daughter I am living with presently talks about feeling so much into the pain of others that it is almost too much sometimes. That kind of empathy is surely a form of generous hospitality of the heart. By contrast, a form of warding off others I have noticed is people who show by body language or tone of voice that they don’t have time for you.
Your examples:
Prayer: Sacred Heart of Jesus, make our hearts like Yours! In the apparitions of the Sacred Heart You show us that Your heart is always open to us and that You feel rejected when we fail to turn to You in our sorrows. May I always hide in Your heart and may others feel that my heart is wide open to them as a conduit of Your love.

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1 Mary Anne Elizabeth says...
Hi, I have just been listening to you on EWTN. Thank you for link to this blog and especially for your comments just now about your fear and need for admiration not love out of pity. I've been praying about this for a long while. Unlike you though I especially seek admiration for my appearance-due to deep seated self hatred since childhood. Got a cross 5years ago that has really forced me to look at this. still a huge challenge though—realization of "flesh having nothing to offer" but still trying to teach at university with insecurity of being judged not just as an academic but as a woman. Hope this making sense- I've never written like this before. Anyway, may God bless you and thanks. Mary. Ireland
Posted at 7:36 p.m. on February 22, 2012
2 Patricia says...
I, too, just saw you on EWTN this morning and applaud your goals and appreciate your 100 steps. My hope is to follow daily these through Lent and beyond.
Posted at 12:03 p.m. on February 23, 2012
3 Shon Pirollo says...
I also watched you on EWTN and must express my thanks for your website and blog. I have been glued to it most of the day – seeing my flaws in just about everything you have written. I asked the Holy Spirit on Sunday to continue to reveal to me what is displeasing to Him and to open my heart to allow Him to do whatever is needed to change me. This has opened my eyes already! Thank you so very much. May God continue to Bless you and your very important ministry.
Posted at 3:11 p.m. on February 23, 2012
4 Vivian N says...
extraordinary work…
thank you
Posted at 6:19 p.m. on February 23, 2012
5 Alyce says...
I caught the rerun this morning and it was a DIRECT answer to prayer of the night (and many other nights) of prayer. Thank you so much for the work that you are doing. My soul has been refreshed, encouraged and confirned.
Posted at 8:36 p.m. on February 23, 2012
6 Lou says...
I am very grateful to have stopped on EWTN the night you were speaking.I truly believe the holy spirit made me stop on that channel that night.I started working with a counseler from my parish on this very subject.In my prayers i have asked the Holy Spirit to teach me to love myself so that i can truly love Jesus and others but without changing these character defects which are engrained in us from childhood true love and true joy is impossible.To have an outline to follow to reach my goals is a blessing. Thank You and God Bless You.
Posted at 5:43 a.m. on February 24, 2012
7 Marie says...
Hi I was wondering if all is okay there hasn't been a new step for 4 days. I hope & pray all is well. I really enjoy this walk with Jesus
Posted at 8:28 a.m. on February 25, 2012