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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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"Upon the road, René was always occupied with God. His words and the discourses he held were all expressive of submission to the commands of Divine Providence, and showed a willing acceptance of the death which God was sending him. He gave himself to God as a sacrifice, to be reduced to ashes by the fires of the Iroquois, which that good Father's hand would kindle. He sought the means to bless Him in all things and everywhere. Covered with wounds as he himself was, Goupil dressed the wounds of other persons, of the enemies who had received some blows in the fight as well as those of the prisoners. He opened the vein for a sick Iroquois. And he did it all with as much charity as if he had done it to persons who were his best friends."
— St. Isaac Jogues (writing in 1643)

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Day 10: Having Loving Conversations with Family and/or Friends
published 29 November 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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Scripture:” Do you see a man who is hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him.” (Proverbs 29:20)

Dr. Ronda’s Examples: With three friends I was much lighter than usual and therefore could take in more of the loving expressions in their eyes when they were talking to me. I did express lots of hostility in talking about a friend I was mad at to someone else. Even though this mentor didn’t know this person at all, I could feel how unforgiving I was from the tone of my voice. With another friend I was about to talk through a conflict because I was less pushy and more vulnerable about it.

Your examples?

Prayer: Sweet Mother Mary, I don’t believe you would ever have spoken with personal hostility even if you were speaking prophetically about them speaking in general about the fall of the mighty. Please be my friend and intercessory to keep me from hasty harsh talk. Help me to see that light fun is so much better! Another friend who wanted my advice about serious problems, I think that because I pray for her so much I was able to be of help.

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