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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“It was a riveting adventure to move by degrees into the mysterious world of the Liturgy which was being enacted before us and for us there on the altar. It was becoming more and more clear to me that here I was encountering a reality that no one had simply thought up, a reality that no official authority or great individual had created. […] Not everything was logical. Things sometimes got complicated and it was not always easy to find one’s way. But precisely this is what made the whole edifice wonderful, like one’s own home.”
— Josef Cardinal Ratzinger (“Milestones” pp. 19-20) 1997

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Day 10: Having Loving Conversations with Family and/or Friends
published 29 November 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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Scripture:” Do you see a man who is hasty in his words? There is more hope for a fool than for him.” (Proverbs 29:20)

Dr. Ronda’s Examples: With three friends I was much lighter than usual and therefore could take in more of the loving expressions in their eyes when they were talking to me. I did express lots of hostility in talking about a friend I was mad at to someone else. Even though this mentor didn’t know this person at all, I could feel how unforgiving I was from the tone of my voice. With another friend I was about to talk through a conflict because I was less pushy and more vulnerable about it.

Your examples?

Prayer: Sweet Mother Mary, I don’t believe you would ever have spoken with personal hostility even if you were speaking prophetically about them speaking in general about the fall of the mighty. Please be my friend and intercessory to keep me from hasty harsh talk. Help me to see that light fun is so much better! Another friend who wanted my advice about serious problems, I think that because I pray for her so much I was able to be of help.

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