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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“After the Second Vatican Council, the impression arose that the pope really could do anything in liturgical matters, especially if he were acting on the mandate of an ecumenical council. Eventually, the idea of the givenness of the liturgy, the fact that one cannot do with it what one will, faded from the public consciousness of the West.”
— Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

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Types of Pride I Never Thought Of
published 18 July 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

At the International Institute of Tribunal and Theological Studies, Msgr. Chaffman summarized ideas he found about types of pride. I thought they would interest you.

1. Pride of Timidity – this where from fear of not being perfect we can’t stand being prominent. I can come from being criticized too much as a child, but basically it is pride to think we could be perfect and to feel terrible that we may be shown not to be perfect. Ronda’s comment: my godfather used to say that we should see ourselves as weak little creatures and humbly confess to God during the day “Well, that’s what I’m like. I make mistakes. I have faults. Help me.” The opposite is self-hatred because I am not perfect.

2. Pride of Sensuality – A romantic urge for self-gratification; too much need for affection. Ronda: Maybe what “pride of life” means in Scripture? The pride comes in because we think we merit lots of lots of pleasure and affection vs. having our minds on how to serve others?

3. Pride of Sensitivity – seeing oneself as a victim. Ronda: used to be called 'touchiness.’ Again, it is as if others have to suffer due to original sin, etc., but I should have a charmed life?

4. Pride of Dictatorship – this is obvious and the one we mostly identify as pride. A form of this common nowadays is what is called micro-managing.

Well, that will be enough to provide you and I with matter for Confession!

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