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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“One must pray to God not only with theologically precise formulas, but also in a beautiful and dignified way. The Christian community must make an examination of conscience so that the beauty of music and song will return increasingly to the liturgy.”
— Pope Saint John Paul II (26 February 2003)

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Day 14: The Challenge of Trying to Converse Lovingly one Whole Day!
published 3 December 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” 1 Corinthians 13:1-3

Dr. Ronda’s examples: Pondering the idea of a softer, gentler voice, I thought about how Mary didn’t speak loudly to the baby Jesus. Maybe I need to speak gently to the baby Jesus in others? I did better on this throughout the day, but I noticed that I get bored and even depressed when I only speak lightly and softly! Loud talk with overt or explicit anger could be an adrenalin rush? How terrible! Because I was working on this challenge, in a written conflict with someone on e-mail I managed to express myself lovingly instead of defensively, as I usually would.

Your examples:

Prayer: Holy Spirit, I truly believe that you show us the darkness in us not to make us quail with fear and want to give up on spiritual growth. No! You tell me to persevere and to take seriously the theme of the whole Way of Love project: step by step even if some days it’s one step forward and two steps back. When I feel depressed from not being able to talk angrily please fill in that void with graced love from You, the comforter.

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