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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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Essentially the Missal of St. Pius V is the Gregorian Sacramentary; that again is formed from the Gelasian book which depends on the Leonine collection. We find the prayers of our Canon in the treatise “De Sacramentis” and allusions to it in the 4th century. So our Mass goes back, without essential change, to the age when it first developed out of the oldest liturgy of all. It is still redolent of that liturgy, of the days when Caesar ruled the world and thought he could stamp out the faith of Christ, when our fathers met together before dawn and sang a hymn to Christ as to a God. The final result of our enquiry is that, in spite of unsolved problems, in spite of later changes, there is not in Christendom another rite so venerable as ours.
— Fr. Adrian Fortescue (d. 1923)

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Day 13: The Challenge of Avoiding Boasting to be more Loving in Conversation
published 3 December 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“If you have been foolish, exalting yourself … put your hand on your mouth.” (Proverbs 30: 32)

Dr. Ronda’s examples: Boasting, a bad, proud, defect in my character, is only one way of being self-centered in conversation. Another defect can be presuming to speak for others. Another would be making statements as if one is the oracle of all wisdom. I had a faculty meeting today and I found that lowering my voice when expressing my opinion, plus humor, cut through some of the above defects. In another situation where I usually becoming a raging lunatic, through the grace of God, I managed to be calm, soft, and vulnerable. In an important conversation initiating a project I noticed that when I was focusing on the talents of other participants in the project it felt very good but when I began to boast I felt more insecure, not about the project but about my own progress in the “way of love.”

Your examples:

Prayer: Holy Spirit, I can see how You are trying to help me to see the benefits of loving conversation vs. the defects that I am pin-pointing in myself, but also sharing to give examples for others to look at. Keep me from discouragement. Let me see even one victory of love a day as a step toward the goal.

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