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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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"Although the Mass contains much instruction for the faithful, it has nevertheless not seemed expedient to the fathers that it be celebrated everywhere in the vernacular. The holy synod commands pastors and everyone who has the care of souls to explain frequently during the celebration of the Masses, either themselves or through others, some of the things that are read in the Mass, and among other things to expound some mystery of this most Holy Sacrifice, especially on Sundays and feastdays."
— Council of Trent, XII:8 (1562)

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Day 31: The Challenge of Giving Loving Advice at Work
published 28 December 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman…who correctly handles the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15) (Note: The scripture has a different context but it fits our theme just the same.)

Dr. Ronda’s examples: In trying to work better with two different groups of people, instead of giving my advice, I prayed first and asked the kind of questions that would help them to make good decisions. In another work situation I wrote a polite, non-pressuring letter to the boss of a project asking him how he wanted me to handle a sticky issue. He wrote back right away saying it was fine and I would be taken care of. This was better than writing a 2 page single spaced explanation about my side of the story ending with giving him advice about how he should handle the other party.

Your examples:

Prayer: Holy Spirit, help me to give advice and instructions with a holy spirit instead of with an “edge.” Help me care more about loving relationships than getting things done my way.

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