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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“If the right is given to African tribes to include their pagan traditions in the liturgy, I think the same should also be given to the rite of a thousand year-old Christian Church, based on a much older Roman tradition.”
— Professor László Dobszay

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Day 21: The Challenge of asking Forgiveness from those I have Hurt
published 13 December 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.” Matthew 7:5

My examples: I asked forgiveness from my sister who I hurt by retaliation, for religious classmates I ridiculed before my conversion (I asked this in prayer since I could never find them again), for a boyfriend I rejected because he was too good and made me feel inferior, for harsh judgments of my husband and children. I asked forgiveness for harsh judgments of mentors and friends for their weaknesses. I asked forgiveness in prayer for harsh judgments of confused dissenting Catholic colleagues and priests.

Your examples:

Prayer: Holy Spirit, I am always accusing others of denial but I am often in denial of my harsh unforgiveness. Help me to feel so comforted by Your love that I will have tears of compassion for others in their failings instead of wanting to demand that they be perfect to fit my needs.

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