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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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"Upon the road, René was always occupied with God. His words and the discourses he held were all expressive of submission to the commands of Divine Providence, and showed a willing acceptance of the death which God was sending him. He gave himself to God as a sacrifice, to be reduced to ashes by the fires of the Iroquois, which that good Father's hand would kindle. He sought the means to bless Him in all things and everywhere. Covered with wounds as he himself was, Goupil dressed the wounds of other persons, of the enemies who had received some blows in the fight as well as those of the prisoners. He opened the vein for a sick Iroquois. And he did it all with as much charity as if he had done it to persons who were his best friends."
— St. Isaac Jogues (writing in 1643)

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Day 11: Conversing more lovingly by not being too loud, too soft, talking too much or too little.
published 1 December 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

What you will read now is part of a series of 100 spiritual challenges. Each blog can be viewed separately, but for maximum benefit a reader needs to start with the introductory blog of November 18, 2011, and then continue step by step. Day One begins on Sunday, November 20, 2011.
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“When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent”. (Proverbs 10:19)

Dr. Ronda’s examples: At breakfast by speaking less hastily I spoke about something helpful instead of talking too much about trivia. With a friend I got her to tell me when my voice is too loud and when it is not too soft. Since often I talk too loud partly because I don’t hear too well, I realize I can think I am talking too softly when I am just right! Later in the day I started longing for more silence even though it is usually boring and skipped lunch to avoid having to talk. I had a good conversation with student, and could hear the Holy Spirit hopefully to resolve a small conflict by listening more carefully than usual. At a dinner I spoke well and made many points but my voice was too loud and I could see that it was because there was anger in my heart. In a car conversation I talked imprudently about matters that could be misunderstood, sigh!

Your examples:

Dear Lord, I went to bed heavy-hearted seeing how difficult loving conversation is for me. It was such a struggle. Help me to notice well the good examples that came with Your grace and to believe that You want to show me how to do this better step by step, day by day.

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