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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“Sacred music, being a complementary part of the solemn liturgy, participates in the general scope of the liturgy, which is the glory of God and the sanctification and edification of the faithful. It contributes to the decorum and the splendor of the ecclesiastical ceremonies, and since its principal office is to clothe with suitable melody the liturgical text proposed for the understanding of the faithful, its proper aim is to add greater efficacy to the text, in order that through it the faithful may be the more easily moved to devotion and better disposed for the reception of the fruits of grace belonging to the celebration of the most holy mysteries.”
— Pope Saint Pius X

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Why be a Wounded Healer
published 29 April 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

I am working on talks for a Healing Conference in Greenville, S.C. I will be contributing to in June. I was stuck a little thinking of people coming desperately wanting physical healing, which will be prayed for in the first segment by Fr. Longenecker, and then having to listen to me on toxic emotions they are usually in denial of.

The old image of Henri Nouwen in his most popular book, The Wounded Healer, came up to give me an approach. Negative emotions such as anger and anxiety are actually toxic. They are “kill-joys.” I thought of a joyful little kid jumping around noisily and suddenly being hit by an angry alcoholic parent. “Wounded” by the negative emotions of our parents, we then go out wounding others, often in more subtle forms such as the “sword” of sarcasm.

Our good emotions such as patience, kindness, are soothing, by contrast.

“No one heals himself by wounding another,” is, I think, a saying from Nouwen’s book.

As I work on the talk I will share any nuggets with you’all.

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