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Ronda Chervin received a Ph.D. in Philosophy from Fordham University and an MA in Religious Studies from Notre Dame Apostolic Institute. A widow, mother, and grandmother, she currently teaches philosophy at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, Connecticut. Write to her at chervinronda@gmail.com.
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“In my capacity as the prefect of the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments, I continue to remind all that the celebration toward the East (versus orientem) is authorized by the rubrics of the missal, which specify the moments when the celebrant must turn toward the people. A particular authorization is, therefore, not needed to celebrate Mass facing the Lord.”
— Robert Cardinal Sarah, 23 May 2016

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Why be a Wounded Healer
published 29 April 2011 by Dr. Ronda Chervin

I am working on talks for a Healing Conference in Greenville, S.C. I will be contributing to in June. I was stuck a little thinking of people coming desperately wanting physical healing, which will be prayed for in the first segment by Fr. Longenecker, and then having to listen to me on toxic emotions they are usually in denial of.

The old image of Henri Nouwen in his most popular book, The Wounded Healer, came up to give me an approach. Negative emotions such as anger and anxiety are actually toxic. They are “kill-joys.” I thought of a joyful little kid jumping around noisily and suddenly being hit by an angry alcoholic parent. “Wounded” by the negative emotions of our parents, we then go out wounding others, often in more subtle forms such as the “sword” of sarcasm.

Our good emotions such as patience, kindness, are soothing, by contrast.

“No one heals himself by wounding another,” is, I think, a saying from Nouwen’s book.

As I work on the talk I will share any nuggets with you’all.

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